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re:Hats in general

When the outer world goes up a notch eg victorian era we go up with them.But when they descend we won't descend with them.Be that as it may,the move from Homburgs for the upper caste toward the new style is undoubtedly (an admixture of) chassidic influence (& bit of comfort)

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Ksh"A ch.3 s.2

Yes indeed.You missed an importantant source.

The devil's advocate contention could be (& has been): the author was hungarian, & in general the turn to black was perhaps due to impact of hungarians into our institutions.

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Your third reason, uniform, is the reason. I don't understand your objection to hats. They are really not so expensive compared to suits or having many nice shirts, ties, etc. Most people only have two hats. And forget about sheitels. And don't even get started about shtreimels. Hats really are comparatively cheap, and shouldn't be one of the main targets of a frum consumer protection advocate!

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You're right that hats are far from the worst offenders in the materialism sweepstakes, but they're arguably the least necessary. There's no good argument to eliminate jackets, shoes, and glasses: selecting designer brands is just a dumb choice. But hats could disappear in a day and, as far as I can tell, the Torah world would not be worse off for it.

Cost/benefit analyses are so much simpler in the absence of actual need.

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>> But there’s no denying how important hats

>> have become in contemporary yeshivishe life.

@boruch clinton

Do you mean actually important, or *perceived* as important?

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A bit of both I guess. The're perceived as important in the sense that roshei yeshiva push them very hard. But they're tangibly important in the context of the huge financial and social costs they impose on the community. :)

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What? You absolutely wouldn't wear a hat in the presence of a head of state. The Taz's whole rationale for head-covering being scripturally required is that European etiquette calls for taking off your hat in the presence of your superior and in private, therefore a Jew must keep a hat on in those situations.

Of course, the Taz was still assuming a population that mostly wore hats outside.

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Well my yarmulka would definitely cover me (if you'll excuse the expression) for the Taz. But we should also keep in mind the (in)famous teshuva from R' Dovid Tzvi Hoffmann in Melamed L'hoyil #56 who infers from R' Hirsch that any incidental consideration can override the chukas hagoy issue. See: https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=1053&st=&pgnum=194

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Some food for thought.

1) Wearing yeshivishe hats is part of an important mesorah ~ Minhag Yisrael Torah is a possible argument - no matter how the minhag arose, it became expected. Accordingly, no matter that the current black fedoras differ to Rav Schneur's, the fact that the 'rov am' of the Yeshivishe world adopted it, it becomes ipso facto minhag and Torah.

Indeed, that fashion factors in (small brim, feather etc) is widely considered bedieved. Same applies to shtreimels, which have increased in height.

2) Wearing yeshivishe hats promotes an elevated self-image that should lead to better behavior ~ it seems to me self evident that the psychology behind it is an extension of the psychology of the yarmulke, which is a physical reminder to be yarei malka. That it's not discussed in the poskim is because it isn't halacha, and the classic mussar sefarim wouldn't because it's very low on the list of priorities. Simply ensuring that one's appearance is neat and tidy is a staple of Slabodka/Kelm style mussar of 'gadlus haish', but it's not going to make an appearnace in Mesilas Yesharim.

3) Yeshivishe hats are key elements of a kind of yeshivishe uniform that expresses discipline and loyalty to community standards ` the argument that it can devolve into a fashion statement is fallacious. Buying a fancy esrog has devolved similarly, this doesn't discount the value or symbolsim of the ritual.

4) Wearing yeshivishe hats is in itself a higher halachic standard ~ "Similarly, the common argument that “you wouldn’t stand before a king or president without a hat” is difficult to understand. I would have no trouble standing before a king or president without a hat. It’s been many years since hats were considered more respectful in such contexts."

I think the Yeshivishe world considers this an example of the degradation of the surrounding culture and strives to maintain fealty to an era where it was ungentlemanly or unseemly to appear uncapped. Certainly in a strict Halachic sense, since today it is perfectly fine to appear in front of a King or President without a hat, once cannot say it is disrespectful to appear before Hashem in shul without a hat. But from a hashkafic/psychological perspective, striving to maintain a connection with en era that had greater moral standing is a good thing.

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I appreciate those points. Here are my thoughts:

> "Accordingly, no matter that the current black fedoras differ to Rav Schneur's, the fact that the 'rov am' of the Yeshivishe world adopted it, it becomes ipso facto minhag and Torah."

I'm not sure that whatever halachic status "minhag Yisrael Torah" might have, would work when it's only a small minority that keeps it. I would guess that - over the past 50 years - hat wearers have never represented more than, say, 30% of frum Jews and a few percentage points of all Jews. And if you posit that various fashion-driven variations aren't even keeping to the minhag in its full expression, then those numbers would be even smaller.

> "it seems to me self evident that the psychology behind it is an extension of the psychology of the yarmulke, which is a physical reminder to be yarei malka."

Which, in a way, is exactly my point: since the yarmulka effectively does the same job but without the associated economic and social damage, why isn't that enough?

> "Buying a fancy esrog has devolved similarly, this doesn't discount the value or symbolsim of the ritual."

Except that esrog is still a mitzva d'oraissa, no matter how some people might misuse it. But non-mitzva activities should be assessed for their potential costs far more carefully.

> "I think the Yeshivishe world considers this an example of the degradation of the surrounding culture...But from a hashkafic/psychological perspective, striving to maintain a connection with en era that had greater moral standing is a good thing."

I think I disagree on this one. One could argue that the closest historical "cousins" to yeshivishe hats were those worn by Frank Sinatra and Al Capone. Those were hardly representatives of greater moral standing. Which ben Torah chooses a hat that looks anything like the one worn by R' Schneur in the picture above?

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1. I don't know the halachic parameters of minhag Yisrael Torah, but the notion of a head covering above and beyond the yarmulke was prevalent across Ahekenaz and Sefard, so perhaps greater than 30%. And obviously only frum Jews count in this regard.

2. I don't know how to judge the efficacy of a yarmulke. Is it purely spiritual, or is it a physical cause too, literally reminding the wearer of Heaven? If the latter, then a hat may well do a better job. And, the economic and social 'harm' are extraneous to the minhag, and not a reason not to institute it.

3. Firstly, seeking yiras shomayim is absolutely a mitzva deoraissa, it's simply less formulaic and ritualised than esrog. But perhaps a better example would be ostentatious weddings - a minyan and brochos is all that is required, yet the common minhag is to make a big simcha. This has led to 'economic and social damage'. Whilst there is an effort to encourage cheaper weddings, no one considers the advent of 'making a simcha' to be an error.

4. Sinatra may not have been a fine character, but he's a lot finer than Kanye West. My point being that the lowest of their era were clearly finer than the equivalent today. But more to the point, it is clearly noted that it was JFK's decision not to wear a hat to his inauguration that changed the fashion - i.e. it was the most upstanding of the generation that led that fashion.

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> "I don't know the halachic parameters of minhag Yisrael Torah, but the notion of a head covering above and beyond the yarmulke was prevalent across Ahekenaz and Sefard"

Do you have any evidence for that? I mean, that there was a widespread minhag to wear something beyond a yarmulka that had nothing to do with non-Jewish practice.

> "the economic and social 'harm' are extraneous to the minhag, and not a reason not to institute it."

Not just minhagim, but even halachic gezairos are predicated on extraneous considerations (גזירה שאין הציבור יכול לעמד עליו)

> "seeking yiras shomayim is absolutely a mitzva deoraissa"

Every mitzva and minhag should involve seeking yiras shomayim or we're doing it wrong. But that doesn't change its status.

> "no one considers the advent of 'making a simcha' to be an error"

Actually, I would consider it an error to make an expensive simcha.

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> No evidence, just general knowledge.

> Yes, when the hardship is a direct consequence of the gezeirah or minhag, not an indirect nor even inevitable one

>I disagree. Yiras Hashem is a deoraissa. A minhag instituted or adopted in order to achieve this Yirah, would have the status of an aseh deoraissa.

Not all minhagim are there to directly achieve a deoariisa. For example, any minhag enacted in order to increase simcha, which is only a corollary to doing mitzvos.

> Of course, yet the fact that many do so is no reason for us as a society to forgo the entire minhag of making a simcha in place of the bare minimum ( a minyan and some brochos). So too with hats and shtreimels - the fact that many abuse it and it leads to social and economic cost shouldn't preclude us from keeping it as a minhag

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> "A minhag instituted or adopted in order to achieve this Yirah, would have the status of an aseh deoraissa."

That's an unlikely formulation that I haven't seen anywhere. But it would mean that the rule עשה דחה לא תעשה applies. Does that mean you would, if you didn't happen to have a black hat with which to walk home, be **required** to steal one? I'm having trouble with that.

> "So too with hats and shtreimels - the fact that many abuse it and it leads to social and economic cost shouldn't preclude us from keeping it as a minhag"

Not everything that lots of people do has the status of "minhag". See פסחים נא. תוס’ דה”מ אי אתה רשאי and שו”ע יו”ד רי”ד פתחי תשובה ס”ק ד

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> No, it wouldn't be עשה דחה לא תעשה. Consider giving your friend a ride in your car? Is that a mitzva asei of ahavta lereacha? Obviously yes. But can you give them a ride on shabbos? Obviously not.

The same here.

> You are correct, but this was a separate point we discussed elsewhere as to the parameters of minhag Yisrael Torah. Here my argument was purely about whether the potential negative consequences that may occur due to abusing the process of a (genuine) minhag are reason enough to not institute the minhag.

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@Ploinus Almoinus : As I read your "Some food for thought" comment, I remember thinking that you'd made a genuinely respectable effort at presenting your arguments in the erudite contemporary Orthodox idiom. But that nevertheless I couldn't take you seriously, seeing that you hadn't used the word "hashkafic" at least once. Well, you were obviously saving the best for last, redeeming yourself just under the wire only in your final sentence. Thanks for that, and please accept my sincere apologies for unjustly suspecting you of such a gaffe. (But as I'm sure you will admit, that was a very close call indeed.)

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Thank you for the kind(?) comments - we do our best!

FWIW, it's really food for thought - I don't have strong opinions and was kind of playing devil's advocate - it's not a super important topic.

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I had a rebbe who put it bluntly: if you wear a hat on the street, you are not picking up any girls!

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That's not very clear. What was your רבי saying, actually? That that's a reason to wear one, or not to wear one?

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Not if you have a spiffy hat and gallantly doff it to speak to a member of the fairer sex.

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